The revelation

It is high time I reveal it to all since my relationship is already beyond any help. I will refer back to my earlier post on 2nd June 2008 (Bad Day!)

I do not want to write this first part down but I really needed to remind myself of this incident to I will do it but I would not want to go into too much details, rather just vaguely mention it because I do not want to hurt anyone's feeling. I'll just mentioned the person as "A". I have always tried my very best in doing things to please "A" that I can, yet "A" is never seems happy. Everytime when things like this happened, the whole situation would looks as though I am always given the right to choose but I make the choice that is not in "A" favour then I am bound to get it badly..... mentally and physically too.... talk about abuse!!! (Doesn't this makes you think our of beloved country?)

I was just trying to teach "A" a lesson because I never liked being ordered and being bossed around (nobody does!) When I made my choice not offer my help to "A" because I wanted "A" to know what it takes for me to do the job. "A" tried to get the job done and was really unhappy about it. In the end when I tried to let "A" know that I faces the same helplessness when I am ordered to do the same job, I got battered!!!! and battered badly too!!!! Sigh! So much for a freedom of choice!!!!

Sad to say tht the A in the quote refers to Elaine, and when I say battered, she had slapped me so hard that my glasses flew off and punched me in the chest with all her might...... For those who might see this as a minor thing, she did this in the restaurant during business hours when it is half filled with people and also right in front of my mother. She kept punching me until my mother has to come over to stop her.

It is not that I cannot defend myself but I was afraid that my retaliation will cause her injury so I have to bear it. Instead of confronting her and make matter worse, I opted to run out of the restaurant and seeing her being so violent, I took Keith along with me. I was still being very patient and controlled then. After a few minutes, she chased after me like a mad woman, wailing and all, I still walk on ignoring her. Then she confronted me in front of Citrus Park and snatched Keith away from me. During the commotion, Keith was unhappy about her shouting at me, so he cried and I have to let go of him so that she would stop struggling. I hated it when she always uses Keith to threaten me.

I walked on leaving her and she walk back to the restaurant with Keith. I do not wish to go into detail of what she shouted, all I can say is, it is not nice things :( We argued but I kept my temper very well that day and avoided hitting her when she keep trying to coax me to...... I chose to walk away.

I was in dire need of a friend to talk to that day but I didn't call anyone up. I was really lucky that my mom and sis has helped me out that evening. I will stop here for now so that I can take my mind of it all for now.

Saddles

Many would have known that there is going to be a horsemanship competition in the country, right? Then suddenly there is also a lot of people getting interested in learning to ride a horse and for those who knew how to ride would be interested in doing the equestrian. For me, I would start off by getting myself one of those nice and comfortable english saddles before I even start to look at the horses too...... Hopefully I can get the right horse still.

Cruises

Honestly I am not really a fan of sea outings because I do not know how to swim. Despite that I have always wanted to go on a cruise but to date I am yet to board a cruiser. If I am given the chance to go for one, I would surely want to go on one of those European cruises, instead of those local ones because I really do wish to get to travel to other countries while on the cruise, instead of just being on the open sea.

Auto insurance

I have been so very excited with my new car..... Did I mention to all that I have just got my new car lately? Well, I have just gotten my car last week and I am very excited about it. Sad thing is, I already have some scratches on the bumper because I have a car banging into my back bumper with minor scratches and a tiny chip, while the other is either from a divider or another car at the front. Now I really got to get ready and get my online auto insurance quotes comparison so that I can be prepared and not getting caught for my coming renewal.

Smokers Life Insurance

Ever since the incident, which had actually changed the way I am seeing my life then, I have started to smoke again. I have been so proud that I have managed to quit twice but now I have started it again under stress and pressure. Now I really have to look into getting myself a smokers life insurance so that I will not be penalized by my current insurance company for picking the bad habit again. Now that I am on my own, I really have to take care of myself more now.

My new handphone

I have bought myself a new handphone lately because my old Nokia has been bugging me with quite a number of problems. I have many customers complaining to me that they cannot call me when my phone is actually switched on with full signal bar. Rubbing salt onto my wound, surprisingly Maxis doesn't SMS me back about my missed calls too.

When I am on the line with a customer, I keep getting dropped calls. Initially I thought all this problem was from Maxis but then I tried to use an old handphone and it worked fine without any problem. I wanted to continue using the line with that phone but Elaine wanted to use that phone instead. I ended up having to get a new phone.

After much looking around and many rounds of trips to Low Yat and Sg Wang, in the end I have decided to get myself a Sony Ericsson G900

Although the phone that I am buying is already past the promotion period, I still got the free SE Bluetooth headset as well as the 2GB M2 card although it is no longer stated on the box :D

I really liked the phone, especially the touchscreen and best of all the response time is rather fast compared to my N73ME. As for the N73ME, I am passing it over to my mom because she has always bugged me that Irene's Samsung phone is too soft for her. Hope she can bear with the slow respond time of the N73.

Roof Cleaner

We all always clean our house on places we normally lay our hands on, interior and external but there seem to be a place that we tend to overlook on, our roof, the protection cover of our home. Many people missed that spot because that it the part that we all tend not to look up to..... during the day time, it is too bright to look up and at nightfall, it is too dark to see. Since most of us nowadays have a high pressure cleaner at home, then I guess buying a roof cleaner is surely not a big task. We need to take care of it before leaking and all start, then we will have to spend a bomb to replace it all.

Heated Mattress Pads

Winter is around the corner and many will wake up with cold feet..... This is especially true when you have someone next to you who always pulls the comforter away from you. If given the chance I would like to start to shop for a nice heated mattress pads to keep myself warm and not having to wake up to turn the heated up, when the matress pad switch is just beside me.

Amazon books

Lately I have been wanting to go for a travel but starting a new job makes it really hard for me to make time for one. I am glad I picked up an old habit of mine, reading. I have always liked to read a lot and I did start to go through some unread book, which I have bought but never got the chance to read. When I am finished with it, I would sure like to lay my hands on some Amazon books

Life goes on again

Starting on a new job is indeed very hard when you have to really juggle between work and private life. I just hope that everyone will have a little more patience with me and my blog. I have been feeling rather guilty because I have to take some time off to settle down my things. The only hint that I can crop right now is I will try my very best to post up the latest happenings.

I would also like to take this opportunity to inform all that I guess it is time that I turn this into my own personal blog. As there might not be any turn to the events that has happened and what is to come is unavoidable. To those who know what I meant, please keep it all to yourself. I only have myself to blame for what that had happened.